...but I LOVEE himm!

What's up guys?? So I've been thinking of things to write since I created the blog. Every time I was inspired to write, I'd get distracted with school and/or assignments, work and other things and my thought(s) would be lost. I figured I should sign in quickly and let this out before it was lost like the other posts. Now hear me out....

So about a week ago, I was dubbed "Ms. Stewart the Therapist" against my will, but it's cool. See there's this girl I go to school with who is going through a really rough time. Now I have no issue {whatsoever} listening to people and giving advice if I'm able to, but I have my own problems you know? You may see that as a selfish statement, but I'm being real. I just hate that people always seem to need me when I need to vent myself. Anyway, I'm getting off track.

So this girl randomly begins telling me about her boyfriend and how he's been treating her. She tells me how they've been together for quite some time now, and that they've argued from the beginning. She complains about how unhappy she is with the relationship and then she begins sharing a story about a fight they'd recently had. Now when she said fight, I assumed she meant they got into another one of their arguments, but this chick actually meant FIGHT! Lol {I laugh because it's shocking, not because it's funny} She tells me that her boyfriend had shoved her and bit her =O Like a freakin animal right?!?? Then she says, "...but God's working it out."......HOLD UP!!......Are you serious?!??

Honestly, I was irritated in the beginning because I barely know this girl. Now
I can say that I thank God for placing her in my path because it's giving me the chance to share with her the God that I know, and it's giving me the chance to help her put the pieces back together. Being there for her is also teaching me to be more selfless. That's something that I definitely need work on. I'll continue to be a listening ear/helping hand the best that I know how. Hopefully she'll become a lot more confident in herself and in God. So I guess what I wanna know is......

Why is it so hard for some ladies to grasp the fact that they should be treated as queens? Why do some of them settle because they honestly believe that it's the best they can do? Why do some put up with CRAP and hope that one day they'll wake up and everything will be the way they want it to be..the way it should be? Let me know what you think..Guys and gals, doesn't matter......

Blessings