Specktators, what's goin on?? I know it's been a while, and I know you all missed me Lol. I apologize for neglecting the blog, but I'm back now so let's get into it. This won't take too long...
So I've been single since the beginning of this year, and I enjoy this life quite a bit. It gives me the opportunity to meet new people and discover more of what I like and dislike when it comes to the opposite sex.
Anyway, I have this friend {who's name I choose not to reveal}. Real cool dude. He tells me he wants to go out on a "friendly date." Never had I EVER heard that term in my LIFE, but in my mind I was like "It's whatever." because I knew it wasn't anything serious...because HE'S not serious...Lol. So yea, he says he wants to see a movie, and I agree.
The plan was to go see RED, but I ended up seeing it with someone else by accident. I then try and reschedule, and this dude says that we're not going unless I'M paying for the both of us......HOLD UP!!......Are you serious?!?? LOL His rationale?: I'm fully capable of paying for two, plus he likes to "mix it up a bit" SMH ""It's so typical to take someone out on a date AND pay," he said. -_-
I look at it this way: if you ask ME to go somewhere, YOU should pay. Not because I'm incapable, a gold-digger, or anything of the sort. That's just what it is. I actually don't see anything wrong with the lady paying every now and then. But at the same time, if you say you wanna go somewhere with me, then you can't tell me that I'll be going alone if I'm not paying for the both of us...Am I crazy?? Old-fashioned?? Or do ya feel what I'm sayin...?? Guys and gals get back to me on this one......
PS - It was not my intention to put my friend on blast Lol..It's all love, so don't say anything crazy about him cuz only I can do that!! Lol
Blessings
I FELT THIS WAS A GREAT POST AND YOUR NOT WRONG FOR FEELING THE WAY YOU DO, I SAY THE SAME EXACT THING ALL THE TIME IF YOU WANNA GO OUT YOU PAY. SIMPLE AND PLAIN. YES LADIES, YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF PAYING MY WAY IF YOU INVITE ME, CAUSE I'D PAY YOUR WAY IF I INVITE YOU.
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Hmmm.....I had this up as one of my statuses before. You are right Meeks, if you are asked to go out on a "date" with someone then YES you'd have to pay. I feel that every man on the first couple "dates" shed out the loot to accommodate the process. Then, go into the you pay this one, I pay the next. Good stuff meeks...Can we go out on a friendly date? I'll pay! lol
ReplyDeleteSAYYY WHAT!!!!! If he was nice enough to invite you tha least you could do is pay...Most women are on they Miss Independent status anyways so i don't see why this is an issue especially if yall goin as jus friends
ReplyDeleteENO: Thanks again =)..I'm glad you feel me on this
ReplyDeleteJus: Sure, we could go somewhere!! Lol
Anonymous: You gotta be outta ur mind!! He was nice enough to invite me?? Are you serious?? I already made my point..If you had read closely, you'd understand where I'm coming from..So I'm gonna ignore that one..Btw, reveal urself....
YEAHH I DEFINITLY THINK THAT HE WAS RIGHT 4 TELLIN U THAT U HAVE TO PAY 4 URSELF...CUZ U SHUDNT BE GOIN ON FRIENDLY DATES WHEN U KNOW U HAVE WHAT WE HAVE IS THE REALL DEAL...SEE THATS WHAT I DON'T GET...U THOUGHT I WASNT GONNA C THIS HUH?? SMH...
ReplyDeletePersonally i don't feel comfortable being payed for... it took a while before i let my girl hold the check book... I don't see how the idea came into his head that he should ask you and not pay...
ReplyDeleteI feel what you're sayin Mej79..I'm pretty sure I know who you are..Thanks for the comment! =)
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