Specktators, what's goin on?? I know it's been a while, and I know you all missed me Lol. I apologize for neglecting the blog, but I'm back now so let's get into it. This won't take too long...
So I've been single since the beginning of this year, and I enjoy this life quite a bit. It gives me the opportunity to meet new people and discover more of what I like and dislike when it comes to the opposite sex.
Anyway, I have this friend {who's name I choose not to reveal}. Real cool dude. He tells me he wants to go out on a "friendly date." Never had I EVER heard that term in my LIFE, but in my mind I was like "It's whatever." because I knew it wasn't anything serious...because HE'S not serious...Lol. So yea, he says he wants to see a movie, and I agree.
The plan was to go see RED, but I ended up seeing it with someone else by accident. I then try and reschedule, and this dude says that we're not going unless I'M paying for the both of us......HOLD UP!!......Are you serious?!?? LOL His rationale?: I'm fully capable of paying for two, plus he likes to "mix it up a bit" SMH ""It's so typical to take someone out on a date AND pay," he said. -_-
I look at it this way: if you ask ME to go somewhere, YOU should pay. Not because I'm incapable, a gold-digger, or anything of the sort. That's just what it is. I actually don't see anything wrong with the lady paying every now and then. But at the same time, if you say you wanna go somewhere with me, then you can't tell me that I'll be going alone if I'm not paying for the both of us...Am I crazy?? Old-fashioned?? Or do ya feel what I'm sayin...?? Guys and gals get back to me on this one......
PS - It was not my intention to put my friend on blast Lol..It's all love, so don't say anything crazy about him cuz only I can do that!! Lol
Blessings
